The days when nothing goes according to plan.

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Showing up is mandatory. We’re talking about the days when nothing goes according to plan, the days that aren’t optimal, convenient, or comfortable. The days with no inspiration, when getting off the couch feels like a chore, when the bed is warm and outside is cold; which, ironically, is the best weather for creative work (Right?? right?). The days when validation is absent, the momentum is dead, and nobody is watching. Those are the days the work actually matters. Those are the days that separate “I want this” from “I live for this.”

So saddle up, light a candle, grab your favorite pint of ice cream (yes, a whole pint!) dulce de leche, obviously, pour a good glass of coffee, make sure Lauryn is in the background, and let’s get right into it!

Showing up can be as simple as setting your workspace the right way. It can be doing the smallest possible task just to reignite the hunger, to remind yourself why you started and what the project actually means. It’s about keeping the promise you made to yourself at the moment of conception; that initial fire you felt when the idea first hit you. That moment mattered & It still does. At some point, you have to follow up on it before it goes on, and on, and on and on (Shoutout Erykah!)

Pushing through discomfort is essential, because your consistency matters more than your mood. Your mood shifts every few days. Your project, if you commit to it, can last years. Which one deserves your loyalty? It’s like that line: if it won’t matter in five years, don’t spend more than five minutes on it. Think long-term. Showing up on the hard days is the ultimate test of long-term thinking, pushing through the moment so the vision actually has a chance to come to life.

It’s like training in a way. If you work out in the worst conditions or load yourself with extra weight, when prime time comes, it feels light work. Pressure makes diamonds right? well, that same logic applies here, just in a creative context. If you can push through the toughest “settings,” the average days become nothing more than warm-ups.

Think of a rapper recording in the bathroom, mixing everything alone. Once they finally get into a proper studio, their work is amplified because they’ve built muscle in the dark. Look at J. Cole! recording out of Muhammad’s crib in Queens, making magic when it wasn’t comfortable, when no one believed in him, when no one was watching. Fast forward to where we at today, now he’s in the best studios in the world, and the output is undeniable. Cole’s lyrics sit in the top ten of all time because he trained through the invisible days.

Expecting inspiration is a byproduct of forcing inspiration.

And that’s where a lot of creatives get lost. When you force it, you start searching instead of noticing. You miss the cues right in front of you because you’re looking through the wrong lens, and those tiny fragments are often the exact sparks that bring momentum back.

Avoiding discomfort and chasing validation only deepen that spiral. Eventually, you lose sight of what real progress actually looks like. Some people choose to reminisce and overthink, living in the past instead of looking ahead. But if you keep looking back, you never see what’s right in front of you because projects evolve, and so do you so Staying stagnant won’t get you anywhere.

Pushing through the discomfort forces you to look past the moment and connect back to the big picture. Imagine you’re painting and one of your tools breaks. You’ve been working on that piece for a month; are you really going to stop because one brush snapped? Of course not. The work matters more than the inconvenience.

The same logic applies to every creative project. Showing up on the quiet days is how you train yourself to think long-term. It’s how you learn to hold the vision even when the moment feels off. There’s no reason to stop unless something truly critical blocks you, like a physical limitation that prevents you from drawing at all. A broken brush is not the same as broken ability.

The big picture is looking ahead and remembering why you started in the first place. It’s seeing the project through the lens of legacy; shifting your timeframe from five minutes to five years. Think about learning to ride a bike: you fell, over and over, more times than you can probably remember, but you kept going through the discomfort, and now you can ride a Citi Bike down Broadway and 42nd, dodging those Mickey Mouse mascots trying to charge you fifty dollars for two pictures. The point is: the long view makes the small setbacks irrelevant.

Legacy isn’t formed through occasional brilliance.

It’s shaped through the slow, steady, almost unremarkable repetitions that eventually stack into something undeniable. The world sees the highlights, but we both know the truth: the work that lasts is forged in the hours no one else will ever witness.

Showing up when nothing is happening teaches you the most important skill a creative can have. The ability to keep moving without permission.